There’s an old saying which goes, “You become the people you hang out with”. I’m sure you’ve heard this expression at least once in your life time. In other words, you are who you hang out with.
Most people take this with a grain of salt. However, this statement is very true and should be more emphasised.
The problem is we get so caught up in our friendships, relationships and family that we don’t see what’s really going on behind their energy because of our attachment to them.
By not paying attention to ourselves and people’s actions, we blindly become who we hang out with.
It is critical you ensure your friends, partner or any close family members are on the same page as you.
How Can My Energy Get Affected By Who I Hang Out With?
Well let’s explore into it!
Let’s say you run a successful business, making lots of money, have a sense of purpose and your vibration and energy is through the roof.
Then, all of a sudden:
One day you feel like you’ve got no purpose, your income decreases and your energy goes out the window.
Why Is That?
The answer is simple:
Take a look at the five closest people you hang out with in your life. Observe their lives, financial situations and energy.
I’ll guarantee you they’re in a job they hate, have no purpose and their overall energy is drained.
The Best Thing To Do Is:
Observe who your energy increases around, and watch who your energy decreases around.
When you decide to clear yourself and go through some big shifts, make sure you really tune in and look at who you’ll remain close with.
This Raises The Question “Why?”
- “Why” should I decide who remains close to me?
- “Why” can’t I just tell them about it and hope for the best
- And the list goes on
If you’ve shifted and increased your energy, inevitably people around you who you’re close to will have to either shift with you or drop out of your life.
By Going Back And Hanging Out With Those People:
You’ll pick up their energy whether you like it or not.
This is turn will undo all the clearings and shifting you’ve done!
Your business will decline, you’ll have no sense of purpose and you’ll become just like the people you hang out with.
Here’s A Quick Tip For You:
Make sure you don’t get so caught up with your own thing that you forget to observe the people around you because you might miss critical things if you don’t pay attention.
For example, if you’re in a relationship where your partner is always thinking negatively about money, has no intention of growing and moving to the next level, guess what?
You’ll pick up their energy and become just like them whether you intended to or not.
My Advice To You:
Make sure anyone close to you is on the same page and willing to shift and grow with you.
If they aren’t willing to grow and are happy remaining where they’re at, they’ll drop out of your life.
One Final Tip:
The friends worth keeping for life are those who affect your energy in a positive way and constantly grow, shift and evolve with you as life goes on.
By contrast, if you have friends who are constantly being narcissistic, pessimistic, drain your energy and aren’t willing to grow and evolve with you … these are the friends you have to be much more mindful about how much time you spend with them.
Now I’m not saying you shouldn’t have any friends, but I just desired to focus mainly on your negative influences you may not have been aware of.
The people you hang around will affect your energy the most!
The real thing to be mindful of is the five closest people in your life!
Have a good look at what their lives are like and that will be your life.
If you’re keen to re-evaluate whether the people you hang out with are positive or negative, and know it’s a BIG problem in your life…
Book a free 30-minute Discovery Call with our team to discuss your situation, uncover the blockages or dark energies silently holding you back, and learn to breakthrough these restrictions to achieve the life you truly desire.