At some point in our lives, we’ve all judged someone and been judged, simply because it’s the way our brains are wired.
However, there’s a deeper reason why people subconsciously judge others. Let’s take a look
When people judge others, it’s their subconscious mind talking.
Everything around us is a reflection of our inner being. This is the ultimate reason why people subconsciously judge others.
There’s a brilliant quote which says: “The soul tends always to judge others by what it thinks of itself.”
In other words, it’s saying everything around you is a mirror of your inner being, so when you judge others, you’re actually judging yourself.
As soon as you point out other people’s flaws or look down on them, you are really looking down on yourself.
Remember: We are all connected with each other! I am you and you are me, so everything around you is a reflection of your thoughts.
When you’re being judged or judging others, you’ll see all the faults being pointed out will most likely be things you’re not happy about in yourself!
Another brilliant quote by Earl Nightingale says: “When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself.”
This statement is so true!
For example, I can tell you from personal experience this is very accurate! I actually went through a stage in my life where I was not very happy!
So what did I do? I started looking for anything I could with other people and started pointing out negative things about them which was really a reflection of what I thought of my own life!
When I went completely unattached and looked at everything I was doing, I realized my judgements were doing me no good when really it was me who needed help.
I am now very happy with my life and I’ve noticed I am a lot less judgemental!
So why do we subconsciously judge others?! There are a few reasons.
The main one is what I mentioned before, which is being insecure in yourself.
When you judge others on minor issues, you are usually pointing out things in your life you’re very unhappy with.
The second reason can be because you’re lonely. When you feel that way, you tend to judge others to make yourself feel good.
You do this because you feel like you get the same energy as you would get from friends, relationships, family, etc.
It’s important to start recognising when you begin to subconsciously judge others.
Why is that? There are plenty of reasons we must stop judging others!
The biggest reason is because we’re implanting negativity on this world!
All of us have one thing in common: We are spiritual beings looking to make a positive difference on the planet.
The problem is, as soon as you judge others, you’re affecting the consciousness of the planet even though it may seem very minor!
Think about it, how can you change the world in a positive way if you’re putting your negative thoughts on other souls?
Another reason to stop is you’re affecting your own consciousness and energy, plus I’ve said it many times before, when you judge others, you’re subconsciously judging yourself without even realizing!
You’re better off finding what you’re unhappy about in your life and find a way to fix it rather than taking it out on others.
Not letting go of resentment towards others is like drinking poison, and expecting them to get hurt from it.
In reality, it only affects you.
How You Can Stop Judging
The truth is, it’s very easy to say you’re going to stop judging others, but putting it into action can be more difficult.
Being a non-judgemental soul can come naturally to some, while for others (myself included), it can be slightly more difficult.
Here are a few simple ways to stop judging others:
Look for the good in every person! I know some of you will find this very easy because it comes naturally to you!
However, most people naturally find this more difficult, but this is a very good way to slowly lower your judgements and increase your energy levels and vibration!
The second thing is
You should start focusing on your life, and not others.
This is because when you’re focused on your own life, you’ll find it becomes a lot harder to judge others since your energy is focused towards your mission and purpose for the planet!
Remember, the more you’re living your purpose and doing your mission, the more your consciousness increases!
Doing your mission also makes you feel good about yourself!
When you’ve got high frequency energy, you’ll realise there’s no reason to point judging others!
The final way is
Stop judging yourself! A lot of the time you can be subconsciously judging yourself and feel like you’re worthless which makes you start judging others!
Unconditional self-love is very important! When you fully forgive and love yourself, you restore your happiness!
When you judge others, you’re bringing out personal insecurities on them! By doing so, you lower your energy levels and make yourself a lot less happy!
This happens because we’re all connected to each other! I am you, and you are me!
When you’re negative towards someone, you are being negative towards yourself, and the best way to stop judging others is by looking for the positive in every soul! This comes naturally to some people.
However, for others, it can be a challenge. I encourage you to start looking for the good in every person! I also encourage you to forgive yourself and have unconditional self-love!
By doing this, you not only increase the consciousness of yourself … but of the whole planet too! (Even though it may seem like a small deed).
One step you can take to increase your frequency and lower your judgements is by doing an auric clearing.
This is because you may have unbalanced or uncleansed energies around your body which is causing you to be negative towards others!
If you’re keen to start taking responsibility for yourself and stop judging others, and know it’s a BIG problem in your life…
Book a free 30-minute Discovery Call with our team to discuss your situation, uncover the blockages or dark energies silently holding you back, and learn to breakthrough these restrictions to achieve the life you truly desire.